{"id":22403,"date":"2020-09-21T20:57:59","date_gmt":"2020-09-21T17:57:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/holistika.ee\/?p=22403"},"modified":"2020-09-21T20:59:57","modified_gmt":"2020-09-21T17:59:57","slug":"postpone-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/holistika.ee\/en\/postpone-life\/","title":{"rendered":"Postpone life?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div>\n<p><span lang=\"EN-GB\">Anu Hermlin<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em><span lang=\"EN-GB\">When the kids grow up, I\u2019m definitely going to get more involved with my hobbies! <\/span><\/em><i><span lang=\"EN-GB\"><br \/>\n<em>When the younger child goes to kindergarten, I\u2019ll finally have time to dedicate to myself! In a couple of years, when we get a more spacious home, I\u2019ll have a chance to work out at home!<\/em><br \/>\n<em>When spring comes, I can take up running outdoors!\u00a0When the weather gets warmer, I can start spending more time in the fresh air!<\/em><\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<p><span lang=\"EN-GB\">It seems like there is always something that must happen before we can start doing the things we need.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<p><span lang=\"EN-GB\">But is that really so? Isn\u2019t it possible that things are actually the other way around?<br \/>\nWhat if we have to first do something, work towards what we want, and then the universe will send us all the opportunities?<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<p><span lang=\"EN-GB\">Is it not true that the Secretary of the Universe expects us to submit a specific request, properly formulated and signed? Signing means you must add something to your request to show that you really mean it. Right now, not next summer or the year after that! Of course, no one forbids you to send the universe a request for next year, but in that case, you should know that it will be placed in a drawer. And it is not certain whether it will ever be seen again. While it is sitting there, a cleaning lady may come by the secretary\u2019s office and throw out the request.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<p><span lang=\"EN-GB\">It does not matter whether we think in metaphors \u2013 if you fail to express your serious intentions, you will postpone the fulfilment of your desires as well as your needs.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<p><span lang=\"EN-GB\">What if you decided to do something today? Try it!<br \/>\nSend a request to the universe about your dreams that could come true today! Think through what they are. Are some of your dreams the kind that you are not ready for today? What would happen if, for example, you got all the free time today that you had hoped to find in three years? How would you use that time? Show me you know how to handle this free time! If, in your dreams, the abundance of free time gives you the opportunity to engage in self-development, then express now what you mean by it! See what\u2019s going to happen!<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<h4><strong><span lang=\"EN-GB\"><br \/>\nExcuses we come up with<\/span><\/strong><\/h4>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<p><span lang=\"EN-GB\">Is it impossible for you to get into self-developing exercises before the dishes are done? Do you decide that you must wash the windows before you meditate, because you can\u2019t see the sun shining through the windows? Maybe you feel you must quickly clean the floors before you start reading a book?<br \/>\nIf that\u2019s what you\u2019re doing, it amounts to taking your signature off your request. What should the secretary conclude about that? \u201cIt looks as if there was a request, but it hasn\u2019t been endorsed! I guess he or she doesn\u2019t think it\u2019s important to spend the extra time on self-development. Let\u2019s leave it for now!\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<h4><strong><span lang=\"EN-GB\"><br \/>\nMore obstacles<\/span><\/strong><\/h4>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<p><span lang=\"EN-GB\">Ask yourself if there is anything in your request that you wouldn\u2019t dare accept. If there is, you must first revise your self-image. What is it that you are denying yourself? And what part of you is denying it from you? If it turns out, for example, that you have a slight fear of accepting a better-paid job today, there\u2019s no point in including a \u201cnew job\u201d in your request. First, we need to get rid of that block that makes it scary for you to take on a well-paid job. Is there a fear of responsibility linked with this block? Or is it belief in your own worthlessness? Or something even more obscure?<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<p><em><span lang=\"EN-GB\">Meelis is a 45-year-old family man. He has been dreaming for decades that his company would one day work so well that it doesn\u2019t have to be run for eight hours a day and that it would make such a big profit that the family never wants for anything.<\/span><\/em><i><span lang=\"EN-GB\"><br \/>\n<em>Meelis is talented. He is creative, has innovative ideas and also has very well-developed rational thinking. In addition, Meelis is not afraid to contribute, he is diligent, and if the realisation of a good idea requires spending his energy, he is also prepared to do that. He has created many fine solutions to make his home more comfortable and attractive; he is a beloved father whose children always look forward to his awesome games and exciting suggestions.<\/em><\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<p><span lang=\"EN-GB\">So what brought Meelis to therapy? Is it because the company doesn\u2019t bring as much profit as expected? No, actually Meelis doesn\u2019t have his own company at all!<br \/>\nMeelis is someone who thinks and plans but doesn\u2019t do great things. The obstacles that block good thoughts are seated in low self-esteem (my idea is not original enough to bring to the market), as well as in a lack of self-confidence (nor can I deal with the realisation of this idea), and in the fear of taking risks (how will I feed my family if I fail?). These are the obstacles that we can track quickly and that Meelis is aware of. We work on these obstacles for a long time. But there\u2019s something else. Something that keeps him from moving on, creating a company, realising ideas, even starting something. What this could be is a puzzle for me, too.<br \/>\nMeelis\u2019 family tree does not include the kind of relatives who might have endured the sufferings of a prison camp, and whose suffering Meelis\u2019s unconscious mind might now wish to repeat.<br \/>\nFinally, after a thorough examination of Meelis\u2019s belief system, it turns out that he believes that \u201crich men are inferior and abusive to their wives!\u201d<br \/>\n\u201cIs it really so and does it apply to everyone?\u201d I ask Meelis. No, of course not. Meelis even denies the existence of such a belief. Yet that belief is what he is stuck in, like a thorny thicket. If abundance is associated specifically with such negative natural characteristics, the unconscious will do everything to prevent a person from getting anywhere near it.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<p><span lang=\"EN-GB\">So you have to make it clear to yourself that the decision to start living your life sometimes involves both contributing to the present day and working through patterns from your past. Usually, the biggest obstacles are hidden right there \u2013 in the past.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<p><span lang=\"EN-GB\">You could even pay attention to the question of why you haven\u2019t started an exercise regimen. Is it just a question of comfort? Or is there a fear of having a body that is too beautiful? That doesn\u2019t sound very plausible, but it might be true! It\u2019s worth exploring, too. Perhaps you have immersed yourself in an unconscious belief that a very beautiful and sexy body is incompatible with spiritual interests? Close your eyes and picture yourself in some habitual environment with a completely new body. Find out how you\u2019d really feel if your body were slim and attractive. Would you be free and be able to enjoy it? Or would you feel uncomfortable instead? What are the thoughts that make this uncomfortable? Maybe something like \u201cDo they think I\u2019m an airhead now?\u201d or \u201cI don\u2019t think women with such a body are taken seriously in conversations!\u201d or \u201cThey don\u2019t think I\u2019m intellectually more attractive than I am physically?\u201d If that sort of suspicion comes into your head, what does it mean? That\u2019s right! You are not prepared to live in a truly beautiful, toned body!<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<p><span lang=\"EN-GB\">So it has to be made clear what you really want. If you are committed to developing a toned body, you must first get rid of the fear of being attractive.<br \/>\nFind out where that fear comes from! What did you, as a teenager, do about the possibility that you might be considered beautiful or even sexy? You may find in the course of this research a connection between this and the contempt from your father or the accusations from your mother. In that case, seek help from a therapist to eliminate these connections and get rid of the fear of attention being paid to your body.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<h4><strong><span lang=\"EN-GB\"><br \/>\nFear of being visible<\/span><\/strong><\/h4>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<p><span lang=\"EN-GB\">If you discover that you shy away from any kind of attention, find out where your fear of being noticed comes from. What happened in childhood when you were noticed? What followed it when you were too visible? Perhaps you remember that, as a child, you had to keep your distance from adults in order to avoid sarcastic remarks or swearing, and there might have been even physical violence to avoid? Having realised that it was safe to be invisible, you can\u2019t assume that today you are able to stand out.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<p><span lang=\"EN-GB\">If you wish to improve your performance today, but your unconscious mind considers it a threat to your survival, your wish will not materialise. First, you have to clean up the part of the unconscious that fights public attention and tries to keep you in the shadow. If this clean-up is not done, you may be surprised at how many ways the Subconscious Self has to sabotage you. It can come up with amazing problems and create incredible \u201ccoincidences\u201d to hide and cover you.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<p><em><span lang=\"EN-GB\">Mailiis is committed to professional advancement. She has prepared a thorough and eye-catching presentation for a key board meeting, with which she hopes to gain recognition and pave the way for promotion. But Mailiis\u2019 Subconscious Self works based on the input she has received in her childhood, and she arranges it so that at the last moment, some more important agenda items come up and her report is removed from the agenda. It can be emailed to the parties concerned the next day, but there is no possibility to present it and comment on it. The big bosses who have come from overseas are not going to hear Mailiis and her presentation. She will be deprived of the expected attention, promotion and recognition because this is safer for the Subconscious Self.<\/span><\/em><i><span lang=\"EN-GB\"><br \/>\n<em>Memories of the physical violence that followed when she intervened, crying, in her parents\u2019 quarrels have remained in her unconscious. Neither her mother nor her father were able to sympathise with a child who was suffering from insomnia and fear. They were more focused on their own conflict, and apart from that, they had no skills to help the child. Hidden in the wardrobe, in bed or under the blanket, the child was worried for her mother, but at least this way she was not affected by violence. But there were times when the waiting became too unbearable and she came out of her hiding place to calm her father in the kitchen and protect her mother, after which she had to live with bruises and torn-out tufts of hair as consequences.<\/em><br \/>\n<em>It was wise to be out of sight on a daily basis, at least at the time her father came home. She could never be sure what was going to happen, what little things would upset her father, what would trigger swearing, or what would result in punishment. <\/em><br \/>\n<em>Mariliis\u2019 unconscious quickly realised that it was safer to be hidden. And although the lack of attention and love made her need to prove herself constantly in order to earn recognition, the opposite need \u2013 to be in the shadows \u2013 also remained.<\/em><br \/>\n<em>As an adult, Mariliis tends to feel that, despite her professional skills, constant self-improvement and natural talents, she is not achieving goals that are within her reach. It seems as if an evil hand keeps blocking her at the last moment. In reality, this \u201cevil hand\u201d is unresolved material from her own unconscious material.<\/em><\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<h4><strong><span lang=\"EN-GB\"><br \/>\nWhy not live today?<\/span><\/strong><span lang=\"EN-GB\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/h4>\n<p><span lang=\"EN-GB\">You can start exploring all the issues leading up to this postponement today! Don\u2019t wait until procrastination becomes your established identity!<br \/>\nHowever, if you postpone the examination of issues that are important to you, you will postpone your whole self-development. Avoiding the discomfort that deep self-observation inevitably brings with it, you avoid moving forward. But movement means living.<br \/>\nDon\u2019t postpone living!<br \/>\nIf you don\u2019t start living right now, you may never know what the universe has in store for you!<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<p><em><span lang=\"EN-GB\">* The names have been changed.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Anu Hermlin &nbsp; When the kids grow up, I\u2019m definitely going to get more involved with my hobbies! When the younger child goes to kindergarten, I\u2019ll finally have time to dedicate to myself! In a couple of years, when we get a more spacious home, I\u2019ll have a chance to work out at home! 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